tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post5177960143557701648..comments2023-09-26T08:30:42.867-05:00Comments on Locating My Life: Forward ThinkingLilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06044336707596369037noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post-24266773656510022402009-06-23T23:31:42.254-05:002009-06-23T23:31:42.254-05:00I just stumbled upon your blog and feel I need to ...I just stumbled upon your blog and feel I need to share my thoughts on a few things with you. First of all my best advice is not to tiptoe around how your feeling because in the end it will only catch up to you. You must put it on the table and deal with it all. Sort it out and pick a place that is causing you the greatest stress, pain, and frustration in your life.<br><br>Also don't be afraid to cry. Crying is not a sign of weakness but a sign of letting it out and processing what is going on. It is very healthy. It allows you to grieve for what you might have not grieved in your life yet. Next time you feel like crying just let it all out. I promise you will feel ten times better afterwords. <br><br>Good Luck!<br>Erin MerrynErin Merrynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05299795583293680035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post-25588530945897795112009-06-24T06:39:37.054-05:002009-06-24T06:39:37.054-05:00I know exactly how you feel. I have so much troub...I know exactly how you feel. I have so much trouble in therapy talking about how I feel and what are the important things. Then I feel guilty that I didn't say the right things, and I think my t will think I'm wasting his time, etc etc.<br><br>He reassures me, but sometimes he also a bit judgmental. I know t's aren't supposed to be, but I guess they can't help it sometimes. Or maybe it's just my perception.<br><br>Just wanted you to know you're not alone!Harriethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10151061142781327531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post-34575387151824841592009-06-24T07:44:37.615-05:002009-06-24T07:44:37.615-05:00"At best positive thinking is neutral". ..."At best positive thinking is neutral". That was an incredible statement. I will remember that.<br><br>And you know - my brain uses the same excuse to not bring up things in therapy that I know I need to still work out. It's the part of me that is still trying to please others. The part of me that refuses to acknowledge that my sick mind needs to work through this more before there is any rest.<br><br>YOU pay your t. Talk about what you need to! Rooting for you,<br>eWrapped up in Lifenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post-7105401048994815692009-06-24T16:34:36.868-05:002009-06-24T16:34:36.868-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.HeartfeltHeartLookhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17077220733417532900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4529408451442066706.post-83360899223493041532009-06-25T06:02:30.769-05:002009-06-25T06:02:30.769-05:00I hear you . Many times in my head is where I wi...I hear you . Many times in my head is where I wish my t. could go to fully understand what the heck I am trying to verbally say and find the important things that need to be dealt with. Becomes very frustrating for me many times!!!Just Be Realhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.com